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Time: 2024-07-13

Allegations of Sexual Grooming: Julian Koster Denies Accusations

Allegations of Sexual Grooming: Julian Koster Denies Accusations
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Allegations of Sexual Grooming and Assault

Neutral Milk Hotel bassist Julian Koster has been accused of grooming and sexually assaulting a woman when she was in her teens . In a series of Instagram posts starting July 9 , Anna " Nesey " Gallons , a musician and member of the Elephant 6 Collective , alleged that Koster began grooming her in 2000 when she was 15 and he was in his late 20s . Gallons claims that their relationship turned sexual when she was 16 in April 2001 , constituting grooming by common definitions . She further alleged that Koster sexually assaulted her twice in the summer of 2005 . Koster has denied these allegations , stating that he and Gallons entered a consensual relationship in 2001 when she was 16 and he was 28.

Denial of Allegations and Accusations of Coercion

Koster acknowledged the relationship with Gallons but refuted the other allegations made against him . He claimed that Gallons and her spouse have been trying to coerce him into a romantic relationship with them , demanding marriage , financial support , and control over him . Koster stated that he was seeking an order of protection from both Gallons and her husband due to their threatening and manipulative behavior . He emphasized that despite the consensual relationship they had , he had been working towards building a friendship with Gallons in recent years and listening to her pain.

Allegations of Sexual Grooming: Julian Koster Denies Accusations

In her original Instagram post , Gallons mentioned that others close to Koster , including Neutral Milk Hotel 's founder Jeff Mangum , were aware of the relationship but did not intervene . She expressed disappointment in their inaction and noted that the issue could have been addressed earlier by responsible adults in the community . Gallons also highlighted the psychological and emotional manipulation she experienced , which prevented her from reporting Koster 's actions for many years.

Personal Experiences and Seeking Closure

Reflecting on her experiences , Gallons shared personal details about her life , including being a trans woman , her marriage to a trans man , and their two children . She opened up about her mental health struggles , history of alcoholism , and childhood sexual abuse . Gallons emphasized the importance of radical forgiveness and highlighted the lack of proper sex education and the impact of capitalism on the neurodivergent and queer community . Despite the challenges she faced , Gallons expressed a desire for peace and closure , stating that telling her truth had been both relieving and upsetting.

Koster 's statement detailed his perspective on the situation , highlighting the abuse , manipulation , and intimidation he had faced from Gallons and her spouse . He reiterated his efforts to approach people with empathy and love , denying the accusations made against him . Koster emphasized the need to stay safe from his abusers and expressed gratitude for the support of friends who knew the truth . The situation remains complex and challenging for all parties involved , with a focus on finding peace and resolution in the midst of the allegations and denials.

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